Where's the line between friends and lovers?

Question

According to this, this, and this, the dating world in Mass Effect 3 is exclusive to a singular person for the duration of the game. In other words, I'm not capable of romancing Ashley and Samantha at the same time. Also, if I put the moves on Liara, even if I later let the air out of our romance balloon, I cannot "reinflate" it with someone else down the line.

This imaginary line between friends-with-benefits and monogamous-lockdown is blurry. (Just like real life!) This leads me to my question: How do you know when you've crossed the line between friends and lovers?

Is there a notifier somewhere in the game that tells you you're exploring new territory? Or does your new belle/beau sparkle with some sort of visual cue? Do the other ex-potential-lovers avoid making eye contact when you pass them in the hall? Is there any way to tell at all?

Asked by johnjon

Answer

When you jump in the shower with someone, that's a good indication that a line has bee crossed. Receiving the paramour achievement is another good indicator.

The game has lock-in moments for all the romances. These are points of no returns for choosing your soul mate. Some examples include:

1. Speaking with Liara on the Presidium near the markets after Priority Citadel II
2. Speaking with Ashley/Kaiden at the Appolo Cafe.
3. Calling Tali up to your quarters for a private discussion.
4. Having Traynor up to your cabin for game night.
5. After one of the interviews with Diana* (This may not lock you in, because she does not count as a normal Paramour Achievement granting romance option.)
6. The shooting match with Garrus.
7. Dancing with Cortez in Purgatory.
8. Meeting with Miranda in a room off the Presidium Commons after Horizon.
9. Meeting with Jack at Purgatory after Grissom Academy.

You have to pick dialog options in each of these instances to confirm the romance. These instances will invalidate any other possible romance. You can tell anyone you have feelings for them before this point and it shouldn't exclude any other options.

Answered by CaulynDarr

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